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Just a girl. I am a contrary one, but beyond that I am not so unusual, if that is unusual at all. I grew up on a farm, only 35 miles outside of Seattle, closer to Tacoma. Tacoma is a city I lived in for a while. I am now back at the farm, having fully succeeded in not following any of my parent’s advice. Sadly it was all very good advice I didn’t follow. So here I am, eating crow. Were did that saying “eating crow” come from?

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Sunday, July 01, 2012

Sex and Relationship Questions

 

Here is what you guys asked me and these are my answers.

 

I would not enjoy it like I do now. But I do love my husband so sure, the physical closeness is still great.

 

I cant think of a single thing...but love and relationships in general win out over sex but they are not things.

 

Yes at first it did a lot, but its back now

This question I am going to decline.

 

Do you spit or swallow

Both it depends on how excited I am and if oral sex is more foreplay or the main act at that time. When I swallow, I find that lightly squeezing his balls and sucking it all out, that brings much joy out of him and a lot of noise. He seems happy.

I was just reading a comment. that is the look on my face when I am reading and typing. Ok it was a dumb comment I was reading

Sadly church is not as good a place as it should be. Single people after a certain age stop going to church regularly until they have a partner. But start there anyway, then stay in touch with christian friends. They do have other friends. In other words stay social with your old friends, even if they are in a relationship. They do have a social life with others in it and some of them are single. Then consider being more active in different ministries and charities that you are interested in. Its not a dating org, but you will meet like minded people and their friends. Again its all about networking

Really good

It doesn't matter if she does have feelings for you, she obviously wants you gone, if you do not know. But if you like pain ask her

That caused a lot of issues, I believe few willingly chaste men would have married me. And in many ways its hard to blame them. The tensions on that subject were high, but we did talk them out before getting married. I believe it could have broke us up, if we had not dealt with that ahead of time. Me being the aggressive sex "expert" to a very masculine man who stayed a virgin as a matter of faith. It was hard on him and embarrassing to me. Once that subject was brought up and dealt with. We agreed to never talk abut it again. He is my last lover , he is my life, no past lover is even close. 

I would call that being his prostitute. Never date a married man,

Keep practicing. mistakes are all part of the fun

Consider foreplay in the shower. If being with them a long time is the main problem the issue is deeper. Its a matter of letting the relationship grow stale. That really is not a sexual issues in most cases

 

Yes most of the time, so I'm not sure I would be of much help to anyone who can not. Then again is it really a problem? Its all fun and we are all a little different

 

That is an issue that must be dealt with before getting married. You probably will change your mind in a few years, but if you do not, you have a man who wants to be a father with a wife who does not. If that is a strong feeling with you, you two should not get married. That difference is a deal breaker in the long run. Think about it and pray about it before getting married

 

It changes a lot. Right now I like the control of being on top of him

 

For the relationship, we take time off of work, go somewhere different for a few days and that tends to lead to jumping each others bones. Sexually every so often I like to do something for him very unexpected and mostly for him. The two, sex and relationship, help each other so work on both even if it seems only one part of your life is becoming routine

I have yet to hear what the Republican party approved sex acts are. I would guess its the entire Kama Sutra. As a Christian no sex act is out of bounds inside of a marriage

 

I have lived out all of my sexual fantasies, the ones that did not involve teenage celebrity crushes and I am no longer a teenager. Many of them even lived up to expectations A few where a bad mistake

I am still looking for it, the search is never ending ... its all about the looking for it

 

 

 

 

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The oral sex answer and description made your hotness factor go up a bit.

Posted 7/1/2012 10:00 AM by online now TheTheologiansCafe Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - recommend (1) - reply

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@TheTheologiansCafe - well it seemed like a detailed answer was needed to make my point..

Thank you

Posted 7/1/2012 10:06 AM by trunthepaige Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - recommend - reply

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Nicely done - I guess I forget that some people think sex (enjoying sex) is taboo when you are a christian. 

Posted 7/1/2012 10:47 AM by BoulderChristina Xanga Premium Member - recommend - reply

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Wow, that's neat that apparently you weren't a virgin and your husband was.  Kudos to a great man for accepting the you as you, not your vagina's history as you.  And piss off to the old biddies, because time and time again people will comment how gawd awful it is for an experienced woman to have sex with a virgin man.  Yet, the reverse is more often true.

Did you ever get harassed for that?  And how did you respond? 

Posted 7/1/2012 11:02 AM by TiredSoVeryTired - recommend - reply

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Pheww...when I was a Christian a few decades ago, we would never talk about sex in public, even though this is not face to face, they way they do now. Especially revealing our personal experiences. Times sure have changed.

Posted 7/1/2012 11:14 AM by runisom48 - recommend - reply

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Exciting answers. Interesting to hear this kind of thing from a different source than the usual sex bloggers on xanga

Posted 7/1/2012 12:27 PM by TheMushyPear - recommend - reply

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@BoulderChristina - Basically that is way I did it. Sex is far from forbidding you are just suppose to stay loyal to each other. Nothing else is forbidden

@TiredSoVeryTired - I had a rep, so some of his friends did not like the idea of us dating. And when we were engaged so soon, a lot of people issued warnings to him. But no one gave me a hard time personally and everyone was excepting of me quickly  after we were married.

@runisom48 - In some circles you still do not talk about sex at all other than to say its bad, but among the younger people we tend to be more open.

@TheMushyPear - Thank you

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My husband and I were in a similar situation when we got married- I was definitely not a virgin but he was. But like you sad, if you talk things like that out before marriage everything should be fine :). Great answers all around!

Posted 7/1/2012 1:28 PM by ilikesourskittles - recommend - reply

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"this question I am going to decline" would be my public answer to most of these lol
Posted 7/1/2012 1:32 PM by IntoTheWind1 - recommend - reply

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I thought your profile pic you were eating in a resturant and ate the lemon instead of the fish!

Posted 7/1/2012 2:04 PM by Somefishytales - recommend - reply

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Lolol, I want to hear a bad mistake fantasy story. I hope it involves a batman costume.

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Wow. I didn't expect you to be so candid. Cool, glad you and your husband are happy.

Posted 7/1/2012 2:19 PM by lucylwrites - recommend - reply

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Wow, so you Christians are just like us normal people !?! 

Posted 7/1/2012 2:56 PM by GaijinWords - recommend - reply

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Paige, I feel closer to u now.  I agree with @TheTheologiansCafe

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"As a Christian no sex act is out of bounds inside of a marriage."

This is not correct. Any act that is not open to the possibility of pregnancy (oral sex, anal sex, digital manipulation, etc.) is prohibited. That is why God killed Onan.

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@SKANLYN - Sorry but as I am not catholic I go by what the bible actually says. And it does not say that

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@SKANLYN - Yeah, if any God like that existed, I'd be like... okay, go away now. 

Posted 7/1/2012 3:23 PM by DrummingMediocrity - recommend - reply

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@trunthepaige - The Pastor at my church when I was growing up used to call you Protestants "supermarket Christians". He'd describe y'all as shoppers who would grab the laws of God that weren't to difficult and throw them in your basket while leaving the rest on the shelf. Certainly not the kind of effort it takes for one to get into Heaven.

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I'll be over later to videotape. (Skanlyn's camera is broken.)

Posted 7/1/2012 3:59 PM by Kellsbella - recommend - reply

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@SKANLYN - The scriptures tell us not to add or subtract from the bible. I would say he added a lot to them called going back to what the bible really says is ignoring his made up rules

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@Kellsbella - better hurry

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@trunthepaige - You're very naughty. I see I must bring my Indiana Jones whip. (Shh, it's only for Protestants.)

Posted 7/1/2012 4:20 PM by Kellsbella - recommend - reply

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@DrummingMediocrity - Well thank you

Posted 7/1/2012 4:26 PM by trunthepaige Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - recommend - reply

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@Relic47 - Will wonders never cease 

Posted 7/1/2012 4:27 PM by trunthepaige Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - recommend - reply

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I just hate people who enjoy sex simply because I am not having sex and yet you say it is very enjoyable all I can say is if you really get orgasms for having a penis inserted into then there is something terribly wrong with you and the world.
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