I am really sad to believe that, instead of Gentlemen, we have created a bunch of men and some women as well who make the assumption that, if they hear it on the radio — Then it is true, and by sheer accident I have listened to talk radio — mainly white males who are the most vile humans I have ever heard.  We all know that Rush Limbaugh is among them, and the others, I do not even know.  Women in America, through the aging process, or born with unfortunate physical qualities have always been targeted long before these entertainers, if we can call them that, came along.  The listeners often are individuals who have not had as much education — Smart men who do labor jobs, but they fall for these hedonistic talk, and women in politics are targets from the day of mouth opening.//  Sadly, feminism brought along the idea that to compete with the boys, then we take on the manners of the boys and burst up all of their clubs, so we women did not help ourselves by not allowing ourself to be girls, then women and to have our own turf, and this will sound simplistic, but we kicked our own asses.  We could have made progress with a little more dignity ourselves, for womanhood is a gift, and to be a man is a gift.  We did not have to take away feminine power of persuasion.  Hormonally, structurally, and how we develop all are in different manners, and I feel we caused some man hate by demanding horning in on everything masculine.  I am not somebody’s little woman, but I think men and women needed their personal gathering places, and both males and females have lost out, because we do not honor our differences and mutually respect that we can share the boardrooms without having to sacrifice our womanhood.  Instead of the radical approaches of shoving our way through; We needed to have lead each other to the polling places.// That’s just what I see.  Working men need to know that these vile radio trash sayers are just that, vile, twist truth, suggest horrible actions which suggest violence toward people like the Clintons; And what kind of women want to associate with men who would believe violence is alright on any level.//  People who listen to these programs are most apt to have Judeo/Christian values which is a dichotomy; For Jesus surely did not wish for women to be treated in any such manner.  Older women of Asian cultures have leading roles in the family and much respect, so can we blame it all on St. Paul and subservience; Stop now, and read the rest of the command gentlemen, for it was about respect toward women.Can wise people understand that all that is on the internet has to be examined for truth, and shock jocks are making the biggest bucks imaginable to capture men, especially, and if they met a working man at a party; Among the first things they would ask is, “Where did you get your degree?”  Get it? They figure less intelligent men are their prime audience, and they want to keep up their ratings by getting your briefs in the wringer, and behind your back fellows;  They are laughing all the way to the bank.  We might need instead of, “Leaning In,” so hard, to teach our sons some chivalry, and might want our daughters to know a little grace, and see if we can find some ground to act like respectable men and women who can share turf but who can also stand apart a little.  For work and equality, the voting booth is a great hangout ladies.A woman once worked for me, the kindest woman in the universe.  She came in with a beautiful hair cut and a black eye one week and then another.  It turned out her Christian husband and his family agreed she should be smacked for cutting her hair and to get more money for her folks in to The Bible School Feminist lead us to believe we needed to be a bunch of hard assed women against the boys  We needed laws on the books so firm against violence toward women and children that any man would do jail time, and every woman needs and still needs to know physical harm is not a loving faith filled husband but a solid pathetic human being from whom, in this country, no law of so0called faith discipline will be allowed.  We can help other women; we can make gains in industry, and we can be women helping other women without beating the drums and giving the radio jocks something to demean each of us.  I believe there is much truth in what you have written as Misogyny, and the violence and careless words we use in this country is headed toward more disaster and less humanism.  God help us.  Blessings, Barbara Everett Heintz

No sir, I absolutely did not say that everyone does it. Secondly, I believ that I conveyed that I believed President Clinton was untruthful even further than what you had mentioned.  I wrote more than you did, because it is so easy to read in to something what is half truth which is what guys like Carl Rowe, and the super paid entertainers like Rush Limbaugh use as bait to get people all riled up and using words which are so inflammatory they divide a country.  I never said every body is doing anything, though the Europeans have expressed they believe Americans are ridiculous for getting in a sweat over affairs.  I know, we have been out of Europe a long time now, but most upper class families have the mistress in the closet.  Remember the quote from Prince Charles to Diana, that he would not be the first monarch to not have a mistress?No sir, I did not say anything about every body forgiving William Jefferson Clinton, for people aspire to what they feel is decent behavior, but what I did say is that presidents having affairs scared me a lot less than leaders who have been dangerously paranoid.  I did say we all have a bag of stones, and I have some hurt that I cannot get over, so large that it has broken our family to pieces at times, not a husband’s actions — But a child made a careless and thoughtless decision and has endeavored to shove it down the family’s throat.  I love the daughter, hate the sin, and believe the one who grabbed her when she was drunk and just 21 carries the potential for great evil, for she was putting her hands all over my child to teach her, “The moves,” in the form of martial arts long before my daughter was of age; So sir, I understand that people do evil things, and there is weight to evil called mortal and venial sins, though you do not have to believe that.I know that we did have all of the home losses, the banks failing, Bernie Madeoff so powerful he was going to lead to people losing their last time in savings under Mr. Clinton, and he balanced the budget.  If I am saying anything which might disgust you is that I feel so sorry for his wife and daughter for having to go through all of what they did, but nothing he did ever affected National Security.  It seems that a lot of folks decided that Mr. Clinton was a rude man, and he told lies about a sex life which I would like to understand how that in any manner tore our country apart as it is now.  I could care less if you forgive him, but people he use terms llike, “Murder,” :and suggest a sexual act and not telling the American people sordid details just do not all up to all of the hate the Clintons now still garner.  I wrote the blog, “Mrs. Clinton, Please Do Not Run For the Presidency, because, dear God, it is time to stop the Clinton hate talk.How you feel about the Clintons is only important to me from the stand point that I said in too many words, “This is not, nor never was it a threat to the security of the United States.  We have had people out of control who cause serious damage, Joseph McCarthy, for instance.  We got in to a trillion dollar no win war under the Bush family.  Everybody old enough to remember recalls that under Bill Clinton inspite of the fact he could not keep his pants up, people felt more secure, and folks had more spending money than now, and we were in a general better place than we became during the Bush Years and now the, “Do nothing congress years.”  A president has so little power when the truth is told.Please do not tell me what I did not say.  I said we all have a sack of stones, but surely we can get off of an affair Bill Clinton lied about in the 1980s.  I questioned his biggest lie of all, that he did not believe this was real sex they had, but I do not see it as important whether you or anyone else need forgive stupidity. How is he affecting your life and mine now?  I have even stated raw disappointment that Mr. Obama did not pull these men and women out of the middle east the first year in office, and if you read my weblog, my suggestion is that the whole sorry bunch should be kicked out next election.Maybe we need folks like you to measure who is decent for the job.  I thought maybe Romney until he could not seem to talk without coming up with some ridiculous statement about the cost of luxuries he owned while the country had such job loss, bank bail outs.  I wanted someone more humble.  I am looking for a torchbearer, a lamp lighter, someone who knows that wars have been nothing but a terrible cost after the second world war.We just need to get over this Clinton Mystique.  I hope they go teach in Universities or that a grandchild fills their empty spaces, and that is all.  I have spoken of dangerous talk radio entertainers, for don’t you know they get to the political circuit parties and laugh behind the backs of people who think they are full of truth.Please, I did not say what you wrote as your summary.  I worry far more about getting people in power who are paranoid with borderline personality disorders than I do sheer slimy sex, and that sums it up.Thank you, and I bid you a fine weekend.Thanks, Barbara Everett Heintz