August 30, 2009

  • Xanga policy on . .


    Update: Hector voluntarily did the right thing and took it down. But the warning stands be careful about what you put on your site. I know I will be for now on


    I wonder what Xanga’s official policy is on some pervert taking your pictures from your site (Copy right violation) then slandering you with them with his sick perverted friends? I was told ‘what a shame we will not do anything about it.

    That said let me send out a warning

    If you post pictures on xanga, we have always known that some sicko might use it for some warped masturbation thing. But it is not just that, if someone steals those pictures, they can plaster your pictures on their site. They can make sexual references and insults of any type they can think of. Xanga will allowed that crap to stay up. They will do nothing about it. They will not take down those picture they will not delete that bastards account. Hell he might even end up in the top ten if you have big breasts.

    Do not put any pictures of yourself up that you not want to see on another site being used as jack off material. It will stay up, team xanga does not give a shit about it. And yes I told them and they got back to me.

    Take your personal pictures off of xanga, do it now and spread the word.Unless you don’t care.

    I personally was not thinking about it or I would never have put any of my pictures on xanga. It is too late for me, I am now Hectors masturbation material.
    And he doesn’t even need to hide it.

Comments (132)

  • Good Idea.

  • awful, just awful, they can’t take it down as libelous?

  • I am surprised xanga is doing nothing about this.  They have known about it for 24 hours.  It doesn’t make any sense.

  • One of many reasons I don’t have me as a profile picture. (Most of the time.) 

  • @rhiannonator - They can do anything they damn well feel like, it is their world. They do not care, if they did those pictures would be gone. Truthfully if they really cared about such sexual harassment they would delete his account.

     They do not care

    Just be very careful what you put up

  • That is a good idea not to put pictures.

  • Man, that’s just damned grody.

  • @TheTheologiansCafe - I waited and waited even after being told nothing was going to happen, I wanted to fair. And notice I am still not naming the two at xanga who dealt with this so far.

  • @Drakonskyr - If it wasn’t for his vomit porno on his other sites I might laugh this off. But that boy is really sick 

  • @trunthepaige - damn, I don’t have anything raunchy, but I will watch out for that. it pisses me off that they do not care to take it down. Honestly speaking, his post was so low that it did more damage to his reputation than it did to you. Fuck him, he was on his page writing about how he is engaged to a beautiful woman–I feel sorry for that woman b/c now she can likely see what levels he will stoop to to try and husrt someone. I would characterize his ways as abusive-as I am sure many others would. What a terrible human being. he is also egotistical enough to think that some of your atheist posts were about him-what an ass.

  • hector steals my pictures all the time.

  • I’m sorry about that.  It was kind of interesting when you two were debating/arguing about religion, but I think that his latest post was just immature.

  • wouldn’t they just make another account?
    :

  • Hey Paige, who is HECTOR, and does he at least close the door when he masturbates?  I sure do.

    Of course, since he’s a lot younger than me, he probably finishes a lot more quickly than I do, and it isn’t going to make him late for work in the morning.

    Is masturbation speech?  Is it Constitutionally protected speech, as in when Justice Black said, “No law means no law.”?  No sperm means no sperm?

    Have you noticed that it is now politically correct for wymyn, when discussing their masturbation activities, to refer to the act as “I jilled myself” so that they use a more feminine sounding neo-verb than “I jacked off”?  I find that amusing.  75% of the women under 25 on Xanga seem to me like they think about other women 75% of the time when they jill themselves, and that may be because being a lesbian is politically correct nowadays.  If you can’t lick ‘em join ‘em????

    I actually see more pictures on MySpace that I would look at while masturbating than I do on Xanga.

    And, your site seems more like a political site than a softcore porn or exhibitionism site, so I never really thought of it in terms of sexual stimulus.  There are a number of sites on Xanga with girl on girl erotic short stories.  Those stories in and of themselves could be a good start for a successful date with “the five sisters” as I’ve heard them called…and why that is, I don’t know.  I would like more details about shoe size and foot and sock odor and the taste of feet, and of foot bullying, foot domination, foot jobs, footsie and other foot fetish oriented things woven in with the lesbian stories, but that’s my own shtick talking there.  When the young college lesbians of Xanga talk about a girl on campus whom they have a crush on, they so seldom talk about the size of the girl’s Adidas and I have to pester them for it.  I even chatted on Yahoo IM one time with a twentysomething lesbian who lives in Rhode Island whom I basically know from Xanga only, and she’d slept with 5 women altogether and I asked her for the shoe size of every single one of them!  She basically took it in stride….

    Shalom.   Randy

  • That’s why I have privatized all of my photographs (other than my main)

  • @BlackJackBebe - He has another 8 or so but xanga knows about them they can deleted everything he opens his they wanted to. But deleting just the one account, and it is important to him he is well known at it. At least it makes a statement that they do not tolerate such crap.

    Not being able to do it perfectly, is not an excuse for doing nothing.

  • Who is this Hector? I keep hearing these terrible things about him and I’m not sure who he is.

  • yeahhhhhhhh, that was pretty creepy…

  • @trunthepaige - He’s into vomit porno?  Hahahahahahahahahaha…I have a friend in California who is disabled from a motorcycle accident and has a lot of time on his hands.  For a while, he was sending me some pictures from a site called http://www.joyangeles.com which featured short videos of young women going poop, actually I was impressed by the size of their output, it was man sized and not necessarily dainty little rabbit pellets and you sort of have to wonder what they ate the day before.  Ana and mia are not your friends if you’re gonna star in one of those videos…but they also had one short film from Japan of two young Japanese lesbians and one ralphed right into the other one’s mouth.  I had not seen that before and I laughed but I also had to wonder if somebody or their dad owed a lot of money to the Yazuka to be making a film like that in Japan.

    Oh Lordy Lordy Lordy….smoke on the water, a fire in the skyyyy…..

  • @forwhomthebelsentolls - The guy has looked foolish in every debate we ever had. This is not about my pictures being the sexiest. No it about him trying to humiliate me. Intellectually he is not in my league, so this is all he can do.

  • Some of the Nazi sites have been shut down by Xanga.  I’d ignored them for a long time and then I checked the other day to see if LiberalJoe and Ficken_Juden were still around and they are not.

  • @josiebunny - He has a lot of accounts “in reason I trust” is where he doing this

  • That sucks. Sorry you have to put up with it. I’m lucky… most people don’t like jacking off to the beard.

  • @forwhomthebelsentolls - Xanga can shut down anyone they want to. for any reason so long as they are remotely consistent about it. 

  • @AFS90 - Well you are better looking than I am

  • @trunthepaige - Well, you just keep on doing what you’re doing.  It’s a free blog engine so a lot of people go on here and pretend to be somebody else and go around acting retarted anyway.  Have you taken a look at captain_jaq’s site lately?  You used to talk to her sometimes…

  • is this guy a “xanga-lebrity” ? [or whatever lol] maybe he gets alot of traffic [?!? i'm a newb here, obviously] by being ‘scandalous’ [sounds to me he's being a dickhead, plain & simple] maybe xanga feels that by closing off his site, they’ll be causing more drama in the long run, so they’re taking the easy way out at your expense.

    i dont know how things work around here, i’m just bouncing ideas off. lol.

  • Yeah, I contacted xanga when my photos were taken from my xanga and I learned my lesson a few weeks ago.

    I contacted Natalia (i think thats her name) and she gave me a form to fill out. But by that time, i had already gotten the people to take down the images.

    So, yeah. I am sorry about that.

  • @forwhomthebelsentolls - She her and I keep track of each other but it has been a while

  • Actually the time she started writing the story about the tall gay guy and the short gay guy who lived on a farm in the country, it was kind of sexy and I wanted her to write a bedroom scene and she claimed she was too nilla to do it.  Now she says she’s about 7 years older than she had said she was and that she’s married and has a kid.  If she wants to write a story about two dudes in bed with each other I say she should go for it and get to the point.  But I think her family’s gonna get mad at her if she steals pictures of her kid sister and claims they’re pictures of herself….

    Now this Hector and his vomit porn is a different thing, I don’t think I know Hector.  If he has 8 Xanga sites at once, is it kind of like a chariot or carriage in Paris in a novel such as “A Harlot High And Low” by Balzac, being pulled by 8 white horses?  Is he up in the front of the carriage where the driver is supposed to sit, cracking a whip and shouting “GIDDYAP HORSIES GIDDYAP GIDDYAP” at all of his 8 Xanga sites at once????????

  • He’s a jerk. To bad the XT won’t do anything. That’s pretty irresponsible of them.

  • @trunthepaige - It had been a while for me, too, and I was surprised and amused by what I read the last time I went to her site.  I was a little worried about the age difference between her, and me, but she seemed uber-mature for her age.   Did she ever tell you about “The Wicked Bitch Of The West”????

  • @BlackJackBebe - NO he has about 15 real friends in his circle and a lot of fake personalities. Well known only because he leave jerky comments on lots of sites. My site is only medium sided and i get 4 times his views at least. He will get more hits over this than he has had in a year and I am not linking to him. No I have bigger site by a lot, so if that was it he would be gone

  • I used to be pretty trusting about the picture posting, but my careful hubby warned me to the point I no longer post that many pics up anymore.  Thanks for giving the heads up to all the other Xangans–I hope they will heed your advice.  I seriously think those girls who are naive enough to enter something like that Ms. Asian Xanga competition will think twice about the consequences in an imperfect internet world. 

  • @forwhomthebelsentolls - I do not remember that one. I found I really liked that girl. Ok so it turns out she is older than I am.

  • @lil_squirrel4ever - Make a political argument with the wrong guy and you will end up with your face photoshoped on a male porno star

  • A photo that you take of yourself is automatically under your copyright. He took it, and posted it without your permission. Google Ashley Green (an actress) and you can read about her current pending lawsuit over this very issue. If you wanted, you could sue. Xanga should take this seriously.

  • I feel for you. This isn’t pleasant, but in all honesty, I never saw the point in putting pictures up. Call me paranoid, but this sketch is all you’ll ever get of nikbv, and as this most aptly demonstrates, there’s a reason for that.

  • @faerieshadow - Oh yes I have a very good case for a law suit and I know it. But Hector is a loser no money in that pile of poop. I would need to go after Xanga. I really doubt they have any money and that million dollar fine had to hurt already.

  • @trunthepaige - She probably also likes men a lot more than I thought she did.  She had exaggerated her lesbian tendencies and also claimed she had a part time job working for a gay newspaper…I find this amusing….people come on Xanga to work out all kinds of loose shit including with their families…

  • @NikBv - Ok listen carefully, you  will not hear this very often.

    You are right, I was wrong.

  • @trunthepaige - I’m not trying to be harsh here, I know you’re upset about this whole thing, but it’s just another reminder, I suppose, that we all have to be careful what we do on here, no matter how chummy the community might seem at times. 

  • @trunthepaige - Yeah, I’m not saying you should sue, but the fact that you could – well, they should get on the ball.

  • I’m recommending this only because I didn’t know that people were unaware that once you post your pictures online they’re basically a free-for-all. I’m not exactly the most knowledgeable when it comes to TOS and other such things but I thought this was pretty obvious. It’s the same way if you post a video on youtube other people can take pieces of your video and use it in their videos (unless of course the videos actually are copyrighted: like music videos).

  • Pathetic, WordPress here I come.

  • Sometimes I forget that you of the “fairer sex” have to go through so much more crap just because some guys are such penises. That guy makes me feel so educated and enlightened in comparison sometimes.

  • Scary….

  • That’s awful… I’m glad now I shut down the main site as I had lots of pics on it though privatized. This is also why I am always sketchy about showing my pic on here.

  • OMG thats ABSURD! wowwwwww…. im SHOCKED that xanga isn’t doing anything about it… THIS IS serious.. and quite frankly can develop into something dangerous… xanga needs to step up their A game.. if not I would suggest calling the cops and filing at least a report if this gets out of hand… that way at least you have something on record.

    DONT QUIT!!! STAY GOLD AND STAY STRONG!!!! we’re all here to support u!

  • There is little protection from the perverted mind. I had to see TV ads with little children half naked in commercials for that reason. They are sick to be sure.  Guys can also have their dark side which few talk about.

  • I for one am totally infuriated by what has happened here.Tomorrow, it could be you, or you or yo that has their photo’s take, maybe used to make up a phony ID, birth certificate, passport or who knows what.  On top of the filthy blog this person wrote about Paige, who knows what else this person could do with photo’s???  

      Everyone needs to stand up and be counted, let Xanga know this is totally unacceptable. In the last 3 days, I’ve received triple the amount of spam and Nigerian 419 scam letters – right after I added a couple of friends in here. I’m a stickler for security and never open mail or add friends without checking them out first.  I found a guy in my  “UNIVERSAL INBOX”  last week – he was not on my friends list nor did I subscribe to him.  He wasn’t in my temporary subs either. So, how did I wind up with this religious nut recommending stuff – all religious sites – and his posts, pulses every day when I never subscribed to him??? One day alone there was about 24 different entries by him. How could he be in my site, taking up all of the space when i don’t even know him???  I’m new to computers, I’ve only been in Xanga about a year and had to figure out how to block him.

     Weird things are going on friends so watch out. Sorry for using your comment box here Paige, I just thought I’d mention it though because you have lots of people that might see this. Sorry if I did something wrong by putting this here – I just thought people here would be interested.

  • “In a statement e-mailed to reporters, Xanga CEO
    John Hiler
    said the company has addressed the alleged violations and
    added additional safeguards to prevent underage children from
    registering on the site.

    “Xanga
    has long been committed to making its site safer for its members,” it
    said. “When these issues came to our attention, we instituted a
    stronger, more comprehensive safety and compliance program.” Hiler noted that Xanga has recently hired a new chief safety officer and added personnel to respond to complaints from parents.”

  • Damn!  That’s fucked up!

  • I’m still fuming about this, that XT does nothing. We should be able to post our photos without fear. Unfortunately I learned the hard way years ago what sick, twisted people will do. For those who always question why some people will never post photos? Here you go. This is why. 

  • @ProvokingThought -  That officer is long gone. Stephen would have had this handled very fast copyright violations, sexual harassment. He was a lawyer he would have jumped to stop that bs.

    Anyone reading this who would be interested. You guys are of sort of lucky,  I am so not a litigious person. I will get mad and that is about it. I might leave, but I will not be filing a law suit.

  • hmmm, who is this hector?

    i have thought alot about privating pictures, but i don’t know if i would care too much if someone posted them somewhere else. except for maybe the penis pokey book =P that could be bad.
    besides, i don’t think any of my pictures are masturbating material..!

  • @beetunes - The one he is using not significantly sexier than the one you are using for a profile picture and the other one is a simple face shot. But you never say anything that would get anyone mad. But still be careful there are freaks out there

  • @trunthepaige - yep, i will be aware, thanks for the warning.

    i sent an email to natalia asking what the protocol for that sort of thing is. let’s hope for some answers.

  • @UR_MUSE - I bet you’re right about that

  • holy shit. Thanks.

  • That does suck, and what sucks more is the ppl that may become masturbation material and not realize it. Atleast you found out and attempted to do something about it. It pains me that this happened to you, cuz I post so many pics of myself and my family, it is a huge part of my blog. I dont think that any of my pics are masturbation material but you never know. I will rec this for you.

  • Anything on the internet, not just xanga, can be abused and widespread. Just one of the fallacies of the world wide web. *sigh*

  • Sorry for running off at the mouth with the other stuff Paige. I got carried away because I was so mad about all of this. Someone needs to ensure that type of thing doesn’t happen ever. It’s a disgrace to Xanga and especially you. There is no place for something like that anywhere in a decent community like this. That person needs to be kicked out of here and if anyone else tries it, the same thing. 

     You wouldn’t believe what I have in mind right now to do. 

  • He is one sorry excuse of a man. With what he posts, it is easy to see he is one messed up person in anyones world.

  • At least he has sign-in lock engaged. Damage is limited to Xangans.

  • But, you’re the one who put it up on Xanga to begin with. If you didn’t want “sexual” pictures of yourself circulating the internet, shouldn’t you NOT put them on the internet where anyone has access to them?

    I think that responsibility falls on you. If you want to be portrayed in a nonsexual way, maybe you shouldn’t post pictures implying so? I don’t think it’s Xanga’s right to intrude on what you put up of yourself, so why should it be Xanga’s problem if other put other things up just because you don’t agree with? 

  • Creeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeepersss …

  • I hope they take care of this,I am sorry it happened to you.

  • @xNicolax - Whatever defend the bastard if you choose it always best to blame the victom. He steals and slanders and it is my fault. Thats right if you do not lock your car and you might as well not press changes against the car thief, it was your flaut, or a rapist if you were waring a slinky dress in dark ally. Those might be stupid things to do, but they do not make it your fault.

     This is just a warning to put nothing on your site you would not want a freak to steal. And never expect any help from xanga no matter how reasonable or easy it would be for them solve the problem. 

  • @trunthepaige - I’m not defending anyone. And I can understand why you’d be upset. But, I think it’s a logical thing to NOT want to put revealing pictures up on xanga. Exactly because of this scenario. And as far as slandering goes, that’s all over Xanga, it’s something that comes with the territory. I think you’ve known that, and taken part in it as well. 

    I am sorry this happened to you. It sucks, it really does. But the only way to stop a troll is to starve it. 

  • @xNicolax - Oh there are other ways

  • Paige honey, I know you’re a sweet young woman, and you were being nice to “AFS90″.  AFS90 is not better looking than you are!!   No offense toward AFS90 is intended, but put on some glasses my dear.  

    As to your post…Clearly Xanga isn’t interested in rights.  What the scumbag did isn’t free speech.   Xanga might want to consider something called liability.  

    Hope this works out for you kiddo!

    Lonnie      

  • @Such_Were_You - My hopes are low someone on high is supporting this bastard

  • @trunthepaige - I am truly sorry.   You’re good people, and my sis in Christ.   Sucks big, cookie!!

  • This just pisses me off. People fail to understand that this is copyright infringement. I’m glad to at least see this on top blogs.

  • I am so sorry Paige,(((((HUGS))))) ! What can I do for you?

  • I don’t see where this bastard has a leg to stand on. He wants to claim “free speech”, but puts a tag on his blog mentioning how he doesn’t want anyone defending you, and went ahead and deleted comments that called him on his hypocrisy. He is an absolute stain.

  • You want me to run him over for you?  Because I will!!!

  • There ya go sweetie, more oomph to your cause, from me to you.

    As a(n) (amateur) photographer, this upsets me. It’s just downright against my rules of ethics for someone to do something like this.

  • omg that sucks ! but hopefully this will be a lesson to yu and other people who made the same mistake. & if guys are so pathetic to degrade yu with the pictures yu put up, then they are assholes.

  • please include the link  :)   It’ll happen,  its just like that… don’t take it to heart..  or if you do ,use petrol

  • Who is hector? If you gimme the username I’ll spam his posts and ruin his site.

    That would be completely immature, but I love doing stuff like that

    O

  • File a DMCA takedown notice.  They are your copyrighted pictures after all.

    http://www.hooverwebdesign.com/articles/how-to-file-a-dmca-copyright-violation.html
    All in all, I’d say you’re handling it pretty well.

  • Makes us who are paranoid, even MORE paranoid. Stupid pervs.

  • You could just tag your photos with your name across the middle or something too, I dont think a site should be responsible for the pictures you post unless they are offensive.

  • @Katrina_51794 - You mean the pictures they steal. I would not want anyone to actually need to live up to the terms of use they agreed to when they opened their account. And sexual harassment, well that is all well and good

  • @trunthepaige
    For the pics they have stolen I would think its too late to tag, but for future pics it might be a good idea.  As for the sexual harassment, yes I would say if you have proven its existence and can show a site Admin this then the Admin has the responsibility to take action.  This is kinda funny because the harassment part is the exact reason I just left another forum based site, “Haunting Echoes”, the sites owners friend was harassing me both sexually and abusively, I am 15, he is 21,  I posted all the things he had sent to me in Private messages and in blogs/forum post’s after failed attempts to resolve this problem by talking to the jerk…. errr I mean guy and then the site owner herself.  For my actions of posting what the owner would do nothing about, I was banned from the site.  Ironically, we had just had our yearly awards which I won the “Good Samaritan” and “Purity for post” awards… So I understand what your saying.

  • Yup, once you post it to the internet it because public property and there’s nothing you can do about it… I learned that the hard way as well as you saw from my recent blogs. People are shitty.

  • who is Hector? Slandering is ilegal for sure

  • Xanga should do something about it..

  • Xanga won’t even fix my girlfriend’s password problem. She hasn’t been able to log into her account, I reported about it but like always they do nothing. Sorry to hear you are having problems with them as well.

  • I have only use a photo of myself once for my profile photo on Xanga,  I will not do it again

  • This jackass need to be reported to the police. This is like as if someone steal my works, making them their own copyright and sue me. Don’t hesitate to fight against it. I’ll salute you for this post.

  • At first, quite honestly, I’m pretty sure I’d be flattered.

    *hides in shame*

  • This is a good idea and team xanga should know better and take the bastards site down.

  • wow. this really sucks as everyone else has said. and i honestly am so shocked that the powers that be here at Xanga aren’t really doing anything about it?…i’m sorry. :(

  • Well…yet here is another valid issue that is making some decide to move their blogging content elsewhere.  They should remove the dude’s account immediately.  

  • I learned that lesson a long time ago on another site. Sorry this happened to you. I know it has to be infuriating. I view everything I put on the net as if I am leaving it on a park bench downtown. Anyone can come along and use it as they like at anytime. This is a good warning to get out though because a lot of people don’t realize that things like this happen and that sites like xanga are very seldom equipped to handle it or willing to handle it.

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  • @danicadelacruz01 - Now this spammer I can get deleted before breakfast. Not that I am going to bother

  • @echois23 - Wise why to look at it. This place may seem nice and chummy but it is not

  • @mangotini - I thought about that “her site is locked up”.  I see you got your educations a little sooner than I did.

  • @trunthepaige - Well, just like in the park most of the folks are harmless and some are even sweet. From time to time I feel guilty for not trusting most of the xangans I come across, but I am still careful because of the few bad ones lurking around.

  • The Xanga Team really said that??? So much for protecting people’s privacy. It should not be possible for people to do such a thing. No wonder traffic is declining…

    I am very disappointed in the xanga team.

  • @faustuosa - The only direct response was ‘I cant do anything”. Indirectly a day latter after I raised hell. I was told by someone that they where told by someone at xanga that I could go the the help page and find a form that I could print out fill out and mail to them.  That is called a cover your ass paperwork trail. Which I had to find out about third hand

  • haha, funny I should read this now. I almost never put up pictures of myself, but I almost did last night…you can even see my face though, but still. Definitly a good warning to listen to. And who is the person doing this?

  • @tenshii_rage - hecticmuse is one name on his in reason I trust site

  • didn’t he do the same thing to importedcocopuffs awhile back?

  • I think you are sending a good message here Paige. Maybe someone should also remind a few proud Mom’s in here to watch out posting pictures of their children as well. There are perverts and then there are the really sick bastards drooling over pictures of little kids.

    It’s pretty easy to see why a lot of people are leaving Xanga. This kind of behavior by that individual and the people supporting him probably has a lot of others questioning whether Xanga is worth belonging to or not. That kind of stuff doesn’t belong here. Instead of writing something interesting or motivating, people all over are now going to worry if they’ll be the next one to be attacked. I’m pretty pissed off about all of this and almost feel like ripping that guy a new one. The thing is though, I’ve been behaving lately and don’t want to lower myself and do what that idiot is doing. I think Xanga needs to step up and give this guy some sort of warning. 
    Two strikes and you’re out of here!

     Hang in there Kiddo. You’re a tough cookie and you have a lot of friends thinking about you!

      Steve

  • completely bizarre, and your position is commendable.

  • Now I’m finally understanding. You are always so savvy, you’re the one with the low-down on IP addresses and stalkers and multiple accounts and stuff. I’m sort of surprised that this caught you off-guard. You’ve already admitted a hundred times that you made a mistake, so I’m not harping on it. It’s just that this is, you know, the internet.

    That being said, Xanga’s postion is suspect. A while back Paul_Partisan posted a synopsis of the very dicey legal situation Xanga found itself in regarding online safety and privacy. Strange things happen here. It seems that the team will react very strongly and decisively if a favored Xangan, particularly a male top blogger, is verbally insulted. However, what if some posts a picture of a redhead female Xanga Team member, calls her his crush and refers to her as a “firecrotch?” Somehow that’s okay? What if a top blogger posts the very familiar picture of Tom from MySpace with his head cut off and a knife stuck in him? I have to say that it seems as though the top brass at Xanga is disingenuine at best. At worst? well, do the math.

    Now I want to say something silly about masturbating and photos, but I refrain. Sorry you had to deal with this. The guy has way too much time on his hands and not too much sense in his brain.

  • @emptyspiral - That was a long time ago and I never looked at any of Hector’s sites unless people start coming to me by way of them there was a time he would get some recs. In other words yes someone did something like that to importedcocopuffs but I do not remember who and she did not raise half the hell I did.

    She just slowly went away

  • I’m sorry that has happened to you and thanks for the warning.

  • @trunthepaige - In Reason I Trust… I remember that name from somewhere. I sensed that he was particularly interested in you. I didn’t know he’d take it that far, though.

  • i save the real pictures of me for Facebook, where i know everyone.

    well, not that i’m high on anyone’s thought list during ALONE TIME, anyway.  ow ow.

  • ugh. that’s sick. sorry.

  • Many people are saying it violates your rights as it’s your picture, but it’s not because you never paid for the rights to it. So that’s one reason they aren’t taking it off.

    You could’ve have brought legal charges on Hector for sexually harrassing you. But, you would need his site/IP address to be able to. If The Xanga Team shut down his site, you wouldn’t be able to press charges against him, and the police could come after The Xanga Team for deleting the evidence.

    It is out of The Xanga Team’s hands. They can’t do anything without possibilty of a legal issue, so stop blaming them.

  • So, who is this Hector? I hear a lot about him but never who he is. 

  • I’d just like to point out that, in the event of anything like this happening again, you would have legal precedent for a defamation suit due to the Cohen case.

  • i’m sorry, that’s awful!

  • I can only guess at what happened and it sounds awful. but I had heard that anyone could take a person’s pictures off a site and do what ever with it. I immediately took any personal pictures of myself off down when I heard this. I hate having to be so guarded.  :( Sorry you had to go through this.

  • Yeah, its really creepy and gross. But this is the internet. If you didn’t know something like that could happen, well you found out the hard way. I’m sorry for you. But like I said…this is the internet. There is no protection from such things. Whatever you put on the internet is there FOREVER. It cannot be removed. Think about it.

  • @empathyisthecure - This is one of those cases where what I put up was not at all embarrassing to me. It was what that freak was doing with it. I had not thought of that, live and learn.

  • Hector probably wants to have sex with you. That makes two of us, but I would rather have that three way with your sexy young husband, not Hector. 

    Hector has a small penis.

  • hey, am i too late to come here and steal some pics? – your a cutie…:-p

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